Okay, so I had to share this story. I was at a CABi clothing party a few weeks ago, and after being shown all the clothes, all the women in the room get to go crazy and try it all on. There were about 10 or so women in the room, most moms. As we disrobed to try on shirts and pants, skirts and jackets, I was pleasantly surprised to see that every single one of them had stretch marks. Some were worse than mine, others weren't too noticeable, but it was a time where I realized that I wasn't the only one and that it wasn't because I "gained too much weight."
It happens to most of us, and I'm hoping it doesn't get too much worse with this baby, and I like that all my marks stayed below my belly button. So if I get crazy one day down the road and want to wear a bikini, I can! As long as the bottoms come up to my navel!
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Friday, July 29, 2011
Things are-a changin'
Wow, it's been almost 3 months since I've posted. So much has changed and my daughter continues to change daily. New words, new actions, new interests, and growing closer and closer to 2 which can make for some interesting tantrums around our house (along with the never-ending use of the word 'No').
Well, in less than a week we will hopefully be able to see the heartbeat of baby #2. Yup, it's crazy, we're nuts, and this was not really planned, but this time around i'm actually feeling pregnant. Nauseous when I don't eat, bloated, sore boobs, all that good stuff that comes with the first few weeks after you find out you are pregnant. As long as everything continues well with this pregnancy the baby will be due around March 26, so Ellie and her sibling will be around 25 months apart. All I keep thinking is that I won't have 2 in diapers for too long!
I'm still terrified. Terrified that something will be wrong, terrified that we won't be able to afford this baby, terrified of life with two little ones while being the best mommy/wife/employee I can be. I'm really trying to take it easy, relax, and just let God take control. I've signed up for my yoga class which was such a blessing to find while I was pregnant with Ellie, I have a GREAT trainer who is willing to work with me to make sure i'm not doing anything to compromise myself or my baby. And an absolutely amazing husband who is more than thrilled to be adding to our little clan.
So, next Wed is our viability ultrasound and we are hoping for the best. Sure hard not to get all excited and start planning right now, and at the same time it's hard not to distance myself from the situation in case something isn't right. We'll find out more on Wednesday!
Well, in less than a week we will hopefully be able to see the heartbeat of baby #2. Yup, it's crazy, we're nuts, and this was not really planned, but this time around i'm actually feeling pregnant. Nauseous when I don't eat, bloated, sore boobs, all that good stuff that comes with the first few weeks after you find out you are pregnant. As long as everything continues well with this pregnancy the baby will be due around March 26, so Ellie and her sibling will be around 25 months apart. All I keep thinking is that I won't have 2 in diapers for too long!
I'm still terrified. Terrified that something will be wrong, terrified that we won't be able to afford this baby, terrified of life with two little ones while being the best mommy/wife/employee I can be. I'm really trying to take it easy, relax, and just let God take control. I've signed up for my yoga class which was such a blessing to find while I was pregnant with Ellie, I have a GREAT trainer who is willing to work with me to make sure i'm not doing anything to compromise myself or my baby. And an absolutely amazing husband who is more than thrilled to be adding to our little clan.
So, next Wed is our viability ultrasound and we are hoping for the best. Sure hard not to get all excited and start planning right now, and at the same time it's hard not to distance myself from the situation in case something isn't right. We'll find out more on Wednesday!
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Miss Independent
I sure have a little Miss Independent at home right now! Unless she is clearly struggling anymore, I don't even attempt to ask if she needs help because she only ignores me and continues to try and do it on her own. Her Mother's Daughter I guess!
If you ask her if she wants to go get her pajamas on, she will get up from what she is doing, look at you, and start walking to her bedroom. Same goes for bedtime, she will get up, grab her lovey, walk to her bedroom and stand by her crib. Pretty amazing, really!
Besides the fact that she loves to talk, and her newest thing is trying her hardest to say 'shoe' (that 'sh' sound is harder than it seems), Ellie has now picked up hitting. Ugh. I knew this day would probably come, and we don't hit her, or even swat at this point in time, but she was little Miss Defiant this weekend and hit me on several occasions when she didn't want to be held or to do what I had asked. I guess I should have been a little more prepared for this to happen, but I've now had to reassess my strategy to remedy this issue and hope that we can continue move AWAY from the hitting.
Only 2 more weeks until our 15month check-up, so i'm anxious to see where she stands for weight and height. Mark is now able to walk, holding her hand, without bending over. that is quite the accomplishment for a guy who stands 6'5"!
Oh the changes she is making ... so much fun, and keeps me constantly on my toes!
If you ask her if she wants to go get her pajamas on, she will get up from what she is doing, look at you, and start walking to her bedroom. Same goes for bedtime, she will get up, grab her lovey, walk to her bedroom and stand by her crib. Pretty amazing, really!
Besides the fact that she loves to talk, and her newest thing is trying her hardest to say 'shoe' (that 'sh' sound is harder than it seems), Ellie has now picked up hitting. Ugh. I knew this day would probably come, and we don't hit her, or even swat at this point in time, but she was little Miss Defiant this weekend and hit me on several occasions when she didn't want to be held or to do what I had asked. I guess I should have been a little more prepared for this to happen, but I've now had to reassess my strategy to remedy this issue and hope that we can continue move AWAY from the hitting.
Only 2 more weeks until our 15month check-up, so i'm anxious to see where she stands for weight and height. Mark is now able to walk, holding her hand, without bending over. that is quite the accomplishment for a guy who stands 6'5"!
Oh the changes she is making ... so much fun, and keeps me constantly on my toes!
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
That's right ... Mommy always wins! :o)
So, dinner time has been quite the struggle as of late. Elizabeth just doesn't want to eat. I put her dinner in front of her, and if it's not hot dogs or mac & cheese, she doesn't want it. My response, "fine." I take the tray away, put her on the floor, and let her go about her evening.
We still haven't cut out night time bottles yet and so my first stab at trying to get her to eat dinner was to cut out any snacks after we get home from daycare. She can only have her sippy cup, but no raisins, crackers, apples ... nothing until dinner. We have been trying this for the past week or so, and not much has changed. My next attempt was to cut down on the amount of milk she got in her night time bottle, and again, didn't make much of a difference.
Last night I told Mark that she was not doing a bottle anymore. Oh boy was he not happy. He hated the fact that I would try and try and try to get her to eat meals that she just wasn't touching and now that I decided she wasn't going to get her bottle at night to help top her off, all he could do was shake his head. First and foremost, I'm not going to be a short order cook, Elizabeth will eat what I prepare, and if she won't, she most definitely will not be getting food that she loves, instead she can have a plain piece of toast and some raisins. Giving into her only spawns a picky eater, and I'm not going to have that! I may make her a separate dinner from what we eat at times, but she still needs to eat what I make her.
Anyways, IT WORKED! I was getting later and later last night, closer and closer to bedtime for Ellie and I didn't get her bottle. She was running around the house crying, in and out of the kitchen, I tried offering her sippy cup, but she knows she has to sit on her bottom to drink it, and she was not going to do that, so, we packed up and went to rock in her bedroom. She was just cranky and cried, so I asked if she was hungry and she signed 'eat' back to me. I was such a proud mommy! I brought her into the kitchen, put her in her high chair and gave her what I had put in front of her almost 2 hours ago for dinner ... and she ate it! (okay, not EVERYTHING, but enough!) She was finished with her black beans and green beans and didn't feel like eating her chicken, so I took the tray away and she started whining again. I asked if she was all done, and she looked at me and signed 'more.' Again, proud mommy! I haven't seen that sign in months, but she knew that she was still hungry, so we ate more beans and a container of yogurt and she slept all night long, with a full tummy, without a bottle.
Mommy - 1
Ellie - 0
We still haven't cut out night time bottles yet and so my first stab at trying to get her to eat dinner was to cut out any snacks after we get home from daycare. She can only have her sippy cup, but no raisins, crackers, apples ... nothing until dinner. We have been trying this for the past week or so, and not much has changed. My next attempt was to cut down on the amount of milk she got in her night time bottle, and again, didn't make much of a difference.
Last night I told Mark that she was not doing a bottle anymore. Oh boy was he not happy. He hated the fact that I would try and try and try to get her to eat meals that she just wasn't touching and now that I decided she wasn't going to get her bottle at night to help top her off, all he could do was shake his head. First and foremost, I'm not going to be a short order cook, Elizabeth will eat what I prepare, and if she won't, she most definitely will not be getting food that she loves, instead she can have a plain piece of toast and some raisins. Giving into her only spawns a picky eater, and I'm not going to have that! I may make her a separate dinner from what we eat at times, but she still needs to eat what I make her.
Anyways, IT WORKED! I was getting later and later last night, closer and closer to bedtime for Ellie and I didn't get her bottle. She was running around the house crying, in and out of the kitchen, I tried offering her sippy cup, but she knows she has to sit on her bottom to drink it, and she was not going to do that, so, we packed up and went to rock in her bedroom. She was just cranky and cried, so I asked if she was hungry and she signed 'eat' back to me. I was such a proud mommy! I brought her into the kitchen, put her in her high chair and gave her what I had put in front of her almost 2 hours ago for dinner ... and she ate it! (okay, not EVERYTHING, but enough!) She was finished with her black beans and green beans and didn't feel like eating her chicken, so I took the tray away and she started whining again. I asked if she was all done, and she looked at me and signed 'more.' Again, proud mommy! I haven't seen that sign in months, but she knew that she was still hungry, so we ate more beans and a container of yogurt and she slept all night long, with a full tummy, without a bottle.
Mommy - 1
Ellie - 0
Friday, April 1, 2011
The Next Baby...
When you start dating someone, you get to a year and hear, "so, when are you getting engaged?"
You walk down the aisle, come back from the honeymoon and you hear, "so when are you going to have a baby?"
Baby #1 is healthy and you have just returned to work and you hear, "so when is your next one?"
At what point do the questions stop? If I decide that 3-4 years between kids is what is best for us, do I have to put up with 2 more years of questions of when we are going to have our next baby?
I guess I started thinking about this more after discussing this questions with my husband. We got pregnant really fast the second time around, weren't expecting it, and then we miscarried. Are we ready for that again? Should we just enjoy our time with Elizabeth for a while, pay off the car and save a little more? How are we going to afford childcare for 2 babies when I have to go back to work? Why is there so much pressure to have kids so close together?
Believe me, i'm not knocking having babies close together, I was actually pretty excited about it when we got the BFP, but the more I think about it realistically, what if we wait? We would be a little more stable as Mark is trying to find a new job since he just finished school, and maybe i'll have a new job, or at least be making a little more.
I feel pressured to have our children close together, I truly do. Nobody is telling me I have to, but so many of my friends are, my niece and nephew are less than 13 months apart, and I honestly get belly envy, but I need to stop back, breathe and look at what is best for US. And what is best for us right now is to enjoy the 3 of us, enjoy our time knowing that we weren't even sure I would be able to have a baby with all my crazy issues. So even if, a year down the road, I can't get pregnant a second time, we have the most perfect little person carrying around all sorts of traits from her mommy and daddy, and in that, I will be content.
You walk down the aisle, come back from the honeymoon and you hear, "so when are you going to have a baby?"
Baby #1 is healthy and you have just returned to work and you hear, "so when is your next one?"
At what point do the questions stop? If I decide that 3-4 years between kids is what is best for us, do I have to put up with 2 more years of questions of when we are going to have our next baby?
I guess I started thinking about this more after discussing this questions with my husband. We got pregnant really fast the second time around, weren't expecting it, and then we miscarried. Are we ready for that again? Should we just enjoy our time with Elizabeth for a while, pay off the car and save a little more? How are we going to afford childcare for 2 babies when I have to go back to work? Why is there so much pressure to have kids so close together?
Believe me, i'm not knocking having babies close together, I was actually pretty excited about it when we got the BFP, but the more I think about it realistically, what if we wait? We would be a little more stable as Mark is trying to find a new job since he just finished school, and maybe i'll have a new job, or at least be making a little more.
I feel pressured to have our children close together, I truly do. Nobody is telling me I have to, but so many of my friends are, my niece and nephew are less than 13 months apart, and I honestly get belly envy, but I need to stop back, breathe and look at what is best for US. And what is best for us right now is to enjoy the 3 of us, enjoy our time knowing that we weren't even sure I would be able to have a baby with all my crazy issues. So even if, a year down the road, I can't get pregnant a second time, we have the most perfect little person carrying around all sorts of traits from her mommy and daddy, and in that, I will be content.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Baby? Toddler?
I had to answer a question on a list of questions today, and one asked how old your child was. Baby (0-12m), Toddler (12-36m), etc. My Baby isn't considered a baby anymore? How can that be? I have to shop in the toddler section, I have to get big girl shoes now, it is going by so fast!
Though she may be considered a Toddler now, she will always be my little baby!
Though she may be considered a Toddler now, she will always be my little baby!
Better walking video
So, here is a video taken at home less than a week after her first few steps. She is now a walking machine, and it just looks so funny to see this little person toddling around the house!
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